May 14, 2008

Well?

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Well, I was going to write about weather and its impact on wellness because we’ve had some beautiful days lately, but when I read the New York Times last night, I had to make a shift in my plan. In addition to my favorite part of the newspaper, The Science Times, which is published on Tuesdays, I discovered a special section, Well, a collection of articles on what we might need to know about staying well as we age. As a wellness coach, I am always interested in what we can do to take better care of ourselves.

Don’t get me wrong, I believe that there is a place for medications, used appropriately. After working as a nurse in pediatric oncology and as a medical advertising copywriter and creative director, I’ve seen the benefits of pharmaceuticals. But, lifestyle changes are a huge part of the equation when seeking better health and wellness. An integrated approach is best, but not one where you think taking cholesterol-lowering medications is a license to eat with abandon, let’s say. Several articles in Well address the magical effects of positive, healthy lifestyle changes on different structures and organs of the body. I won’t review all of them, but the one about having a healthier heart speaks volumes.

In the Well piece on the heart, Eating Your Way to a Sturdy Heart, Tara Parker-Pope writes that “simple and even pleasurable changes in the foods you eat can rival medication in terms of the benefit to your heart”—an organ you’ll need for the rest of your life. She mentions that there is a lot of data to show that just a few small changes, including eating more fish, nuts, vegetables, and fiber, can make a huge difference in heart health. So, why aren’t people making those changes? Are you eating more of these foods lately?  If not, what steps could you take to move closer to that way of eating? When will you start? Speaking of steps, Gina Kolata’s Well article on exercise, More Than An Exercise In Vanity” focused on functional fitness, endurance and strength as key to aging well. If you happen to fall when you’re older, you do want to be able to get up. If exercise isn’t a regular part of your routine, how could you make that happen? What would happen if you don’t exercise?

Do you want to change your diet? A diet rich in fish-derived omega fatty acids can lower the risk of death by almost 25%. Send the grilled salmon right over here, please. She went on to mention that some studies show that a diet high in omega-3 fatty acids from fish, nuts and other sources can lower cardiovascular risk by 60%. Adding a salad to your day isn’t difficult these days, with the wide variety of bagged greens and produce available. I don’t know about you, but I want my heart to hold out for as long as possible.

Another enormous contributor to heart disease is smoking. The good news is that fewer people are smoking these days, helping to reduce the rate of cardiovascular disease.  Interestingly, as I finished reading Well and The Science Times section, I reached for the first section of the paper, and right on the top left was the headline, Cigarette Bill Treats Menthol With Leniency.  What’s that about, I wondered? It turns out that Congress wants to give the FDA the right to regulate tobacco for the first time, but menthol would be exempt from regulation. Lobbyists for the tobacco industry are protecting mentholated brands, which make up 25% of the $70 billion dollar industry, probably because these brands seem to help new smokers tolerate the taste of tobacco and likely encourage addiction. It seems that they are heavily marketed to African-Americans; about 75% of African Americans smoke mentholated brands, a fact I didn’t know before reading this article. But, because of the way our legislative system works, the exemption for menthol must be tolerated in order to pass the larger issue of tobacco regulation. This is very unfortunate, as African-Americans, who are generally under served medically in this country are often diagnosed late when they develop lung cancer, which places them at a distinct treatment disadvantage.

I’m not sure that regulating tobacco is the answer, as it seems there is infighting within the industry, with some, such as Philip Morris, supporting regulation and others not. This may give cigarette makers the ability to say that the FDA has approved their brands as less harmful. Is that a benefit?  I guess that’s in line with how the FDA operates, approving certain drugs that are less harmful than others…  My personal preference would be to engage tobacco industry executives and workers in purposeful work other than making cigarettes, which would eliminate a major source of many medical conditions (not just lung cancer) and out-of-control health care costs.

Let’s turn the page to Tuesday’s obituaries, where I came upon the life of Murray Jarvik, uncle of Dr. Robert Jarvik, who developed the first artificial heart implanted into a human. Murray Jarvik was a psychopharmacologist who contributed to development of the first nicotine patch.  The quote chosen to close his obituary, words he wrote in 1977, is telling:  “It is strange that people should go to such lengths to burn and then inhale some vegetable matter. We must find out what is rewarding about it."

So, eating our vegetables is better for us than smoking them, but grilling and eating fish is good, too. And, it’s better to never start smoking.  What healthy lifestyle changes will you make—or think about making—today? You can find more ideas on www.nytimes.com/wellguide. I wish you well.

Beth Tansey Peller, RN, BS is a health writer and wellness coach certified by Wellcoaches Corporation. Beth focuses on helping women dealing with the multiple responsibilities of midlife amid the hormonal shifts of perimenopause to achieve long-desired positive changes in fitness, nutrition, stress management and overall wellness.Beth offers affordable e-booklets in her series, Make It Happen in Midlife!, as well as a range of individual and group coaching services. You can find out more about Beth by visiting www.bewellwithbeth.com. Register to receive your free e-booklet, This Change Will Do You Good.

 

 

 

 

May 13, 2008

14KGold: Links For Ladies Who Launch

Ideal Bite:  A great resource for all things green. Co-Founders Jennifer Boulden and Heather Stephenson are featured this week in the Ladies Who Launch newsletter.

The Boss of You
: New business book for women by Lauren Bacon and Emira Mears.

MizPee:  A directory of clean restrooms all over the country (Bookmark this!)

May 06, 2008

Julia Cameron at the Ladies Who Launch Speaker Series

Thanks to the Ladies Who Launch Speaker Series, I was introduced to Julia Cameron. Most of you reading this might have just raised an eyebrow, but it's true. I think I've been leading my own Artist's Way, and had no idea of these natural teachings by such a clear-minded woman.

The event and book signing was held at Barnes and Noble at Lincoln Center, the location of which was thanks to the relationship with Ladies Who Launch member and event planner, Christine Paul. And what a great spot to host the event - surrounded by inspirational letters, book covers, stickers, scrapbooks, pens, wrapping paper - a paper lover's delight. Listening to Julia Cameron was so peaceful. Her life has contained so much, and yet she has led it simply - by listening to her voice, her gut.

She was there to promote her new book, The Writing Diet: Write Yourself Right-Size, which we all got copies of, each of which she signed on the spot. While walking (one of her most recommended activities to create sparks of forward motion), she had the most startling revelation: that people in her Artist's Way classes typically lost weight if they were overweight. They looked fresher and more healthy at the end of the class. She attributed this to writing, and to how Morning Pages purges people of clogging thoughts. In fact, after the event, my friend told me that in fact her Morning Pages led her to divorce her husband. When I leave a job I don't like, I have been known to go through a transformation. Twice this has happened, where I leave a terrible job, see my old co-workers, and I look like I've been on vacation. Now that I work for myself, I wonder what I look like...  ;)

Read more of the original version of this article on FashionMista >

May 05, 2008

Martha Stewart Announce Dreamers Into Doers Awards

New York – May 5, 2008 – Today, on the syndicated daily television program The Martha Stewart Show, Martha Stewart kicked off the second annual “Dreamers into Doers” Awards program, which honors extraordinary women for their achievements. Launched in 2007, the “Dreamers Into Doers” program celebrates women who have turned a specific passion into a career, a business or a philanthropic program, just as Martha did 25 years ago with her first book, Entertaining.

Beginning today and continuing through July 11, women are invited to submit a 250-word essay and photos showcasing their endeavor at http://www.marthastewart.com/dreamers. From these entries, Martha Stewart and her team at Martha Stewart Living Omnimedia, Inc. will select one Grand Prize winner and 10 honorees who will be celebrated this Fall in New York City on The Martha Stewart Show.

“I was so touched and inspired by the women we honored with last year’s ‘Dreamers Into Doers’ Awards program. I’m thrilled to once again be celebrating the accomplishments of women who have worked hard to realize a dream, and I look forward to learning about all the wonderful ways in which this year’s entrants have turned their passion into a reality,” said Martha Stewart, Founder of MSLO.

The Grand Prize winner will receive $10,000 from MSLO to help her pursue her dream, along with vacations for a lifetime provided by Wyndham Vacation Ownership. The honorees each will be awarded $1,000 [by MSLO] and also will receive a week-long vacation at the Wyndham Rio Mar Resort + Spa in Puerto Rico. To relaunch its pioneering WOMEN ON THEIR WAY®  program for female travelers, Wyndham Worldwide will sponsor the 2008 “Dreamers Into Doers” program.

April 30, 2008

Practical Girl Lives Magical Life

By Coach Joelle Prochera, professional life coach, fellow launcher and creator of the MAKE YOUR LIFE PROGRAM where you get to experience the magic of your life lived on purpose!  To hear more from Coach Joelle subscribe to the Livloud! Newsletter or read the coach joelle blog.   

I never went looking for magic.

Jpheadshot_small I never went looking for magic.

Sure, I liked the idea of the power of positive thinking.

I liked the idea that there was a mysterious force working behind the scenes for my greater good.

I liked the idea that there was something beyond the walls and the floor and the chairs, something unseen that had my friends calling me on just the morning that they had crossed my mind. 

But you see, I am a practical girl and I was not going to sit around trying to magically positive-think my way to make more money, to finding a husband or to getting my staff to stop bickering.  It was just too much for me to throw my life into the hand of an illusory and unreliable unknown. 

And so,

I set out to find something solid, something tangible, something practical that I could count on when it came to creating a life that worked.

In my quest to understand and my own search for happiness, I came across something called coaching (more specifically Ontological coaching), within it I found tools, models and exercises that began to reveal the mystery. 

Suddenly, positive thinking made sense, but not because of something “magical” but because of a clearly discernable processes that even the most logical person could grasp.  I had found my answer and I started putting it to work in my life.

By using these practical tools, I began to master my own ability to be happy and own my personal power.  I honed my skill and became someone who was consciously making my life. 

• Through this knowledge I was able to create abundant, deeply rewarding relationships.

• I excelled at my work and ultimately went on to create a professional life that completely fulfills me and gives me freedom of time, location and limitless possibility. 

• I used these same skills to rise above years of serial dating and chronic dissatisfaction to ultimately find and marry the man of my dreams. 

• Perhaps most importantly I became that joyful, peaceful person I had been longing to be.

I became comfortable in my own skin.

The stronger I got, and the clearer I became, and the less baggage I carried, the more something became quite clear.   To my great surprise, the magic which I had worked so hard to live without became an undeniable fact.

The very same coaching tools that I had been using to make my life work, were also freeing me up and lifting me up to be in the flow, to be in tune with my higher self and to experience the magic inherent in our world.

No, I didn’t go looking for magic… but fortunately magic found me anyway.

Today, the magic of the world and my place within it is an integral part of my life experience and my capacity to a create life in alignment with my greatest dreams. 

Not so long ago I would never have dared to write all of this in an article but today it is my truth and as I said, simply undeniable.  At this point in my life I cannot go a day without someone talking about “the universe”, God, someone telling me they got chills at some part in our conversation or someone saying “I just know we came into each other’s lives for a reason.” HOW COOL IS THAT!

Magical living is so much more fun than living solely in the practical because it opens exciting new avenues for your dreams to be fulfilled. No longer are your dreams solely dependant on your hard work, instead, it becomes part hard work, part being open and part providence.

I invite you to really look at your life and ask yourself what is it that you want, and perhaps more importantly, what is it that life wants from you?  These two go hand in hand - your dreams and desires call you into your highest service and you living your passion is not only for your greatest good but for the good of all.  When you put it that way it is almost selfish not to go for the joy, follow your dreams and do what you love.

So, I ask you….

What are those things that you wonder about….day-dream about?

Those ideas that give you that tinge of excitement and have you pondering…

”could I really?” 

I am here to say YES, yes you can! Those wonderings, those ideas of how life could be, those daydreams, are there for a reason. They are there to draw you to the life you were put here to live.  One where you are joyfully, passionately and fully living a life you love.

Do you dare to be the master of your own destiny?

My personal wish for you is that you come to know the wonder of this world, that you dare to follow your dreams, and that you experience the magic of a life lived on purpose.

With Love,

Coach Joelle

P.S.  Seeking more time, peace, beauty and magic in your life?  You just may want to check out the Make Your Life Program.   Go for the joy ladies, go for the joy!

SHARE YOUR SELF IN THE COMMENTS BELOW:  Have you experienced the magic, flow and serendipity of life?  Do you find yourself in awe of the fortuitous circumstances by which you came to launch your project or build your business?  Share your insight and inspiration in the comments below.

DO YOU HAVE A QUESTION FOR COACH JOELLE?:  I am looking for the opportunity to fully serve each of you on your personal adventure.  If you have a life or business challenge that you would like a coaching perspective on, or perhaps you just want to talk about the magic of life (YUM) please share your comments below or email me at Joelle@coachjoelle.com.

"Make your life a work of art a joyful dance a grand adventure!" -Coach Joelle

April 29, 2008

The First 30 to 50 Years Were Just a Dress Rehearsal...Top Ten Tips to Help Move You Forward

Below is my Top Ten List to help us LWL women become fabulous and fearless. I have tried them all and not a single tip was recalled. Try one, or a couple or all of them. Just embrace taking a chance on yourself and leave the fear behind!

1) CELEBRATE. First of all, celebrate all you have accomplished in your life. Plan a party for 100 of your closest friends or just for yourself. Set a nice table, light some scented candles, put on some rock n’ roll music…

2) DARE. Try something you have never done before. Here are a few examples: go kayaking with some friends; become fluent in Italian; visit a spa for a day and leave with red hair; help build homes or buy some Jimmy Choos shoes. Just don’t do them all at once. Your family and friends just might freak out a bit. If they do, invite them to come along!

3) INTUIT. Have you met your friend who goes by the name of Intuition? Intuition, inner voices, gut feelings can reveal clues about what you should do next. Try this: A) Find a quiet place where you won’t be disturbed. B) Close your eyes (oh yes, sit down first) and take in a couple of breaths and feel yourself start to slow down. C) Ask your intuition a question – it can be about where to move, what direction to take in your new life or do I really want this new relationship? D) Sit quietly and wait for your intuition to speak to you. E) Did you get a calm, happy feeling? Did dread or feelings of foreboding fill every cell in your body? Did you hear a word over and over? Did you just get that “knowing “ feeling that you have found your answer? Did it act like no one’s at home? Developing one’s intuition is the answer to that corny but telling question: How do you get to Carnegie Hall? Practice, practice and practice! But what a great friend to have around and it will always tell you the truth!

 4) EXPLORE. So you have decided that the time has come to take your life by the lapels and do….? You always thought you would like to give tours thru the ancient ruins in Egypt, or take to the stage in Edwardian finery or maybe own a cozy book store with the aroma of just brewed coffee filling the soul along with the words of Toni Morrison? Before you pack your bags, do take a trip to Vocation Vacations’ website. This organization will let you test drive your dreams and you may find yourself doing a little tire kicking as you discover a new and exciting way to live your life outrageously! www.vocationvacations.com.

 5) MOVE. We got to love “Dancing with the Stars” don’t we? I personally don’t care for the outfits (I’m more the crisp white tee shirt, blue jeans, black jacket with scarf draped around the neck for days kinda of woman) but they make me want to dance and shake everything that won’t snap in two! Another way to tend to your body and its needs is to move everyday. It won’t work to just exercise your brain because you need to drag your body along on your great adventures. So make it your best body. How would it feel to exercise first thing in the morning? Guaranteed to get your metabolism up and running and whether you’re running, walking or watching the Today Show while conquering some hills and miles on your treadmill, you are taking excellent care of your body and soul. But it doesn’t really matter what time you exercise. Just remember that all of you counts, so dust off those weights and your toned muscles will thank me later. I guarantee the journey will be less taxing and you just might end up taking Zumba lessons. Just leave the sequins at home!

 6) READ. So, on the days when it’s raining or the humidity is so high that your hair is picking up CNN….go and pick up something and read. I don’t know if I have an all time favorite female author but these authors have inspired me throughout the years: Jane Austen, Alice Munro, Anna Quindlen, Maya Angelou,  Anne Lamott (I want to come back as her sense of humor), Fannie Flagg, Dorothy Parker, Julia Cameron and Lynn Robinson. (I just knew I was going to like her writing - she’s one of the nation’s leading experts on Intuition). Go and get lost in a book. You may have noticed that I left out some popular romance writers. I want you to be inspired and not out of breath when you have finished your books. Skip “Eat, Pray, Love” on an empty stomach. I gained 8 pounds during the “Eat” section. And it doesn’t have to be a book. When I read “More Magazine,” I feel far from even approaching being over some hill, more sexy and secure in my choices and joyful to be in the middle of my middlesence madness.  It makes me want to vacuum in high heels. Well, maybe not, why not a magazine that salutes us fabulous women in our forties and fifties?

 7) BE BOLD. Fall in love with you and your new life and don’t let anyone tell you that you and your dreams are frivolous. When someone asks why at this time of your life you are reinventing your life, just smile and say, “If I don’t become the person I am meant to be, then the world misses out on my greatness and my potential to make the world a better place will be lost forever. Thanks for asking and have a nice day.”

 8) VOLUNTEER. Nothing makes you feel empowered like helping someone else feel that way, too.

9) RELAX. Escapism is marvelous, but escapism that motivates us is unbeatable. One of the best escape routes to take can be driving to your local video store or walking over to the TV remote. We don’t always see positive role models of women in the news. They may be infamous (like the call girl and the NY governor, for example) but they are not inspiring and it is a tad insulting. When going through transitions, we need some downtime and a bag of kettle corn popcorn. And some funny, fearless and fabulous women to make us smile and say to ourselves, “I am ready.” Here are just a few that might make you feel that anything is possible in your life: “All About Eve,” “When Harry Met Sally,” “Breakfast at Tiffany’s,” (try to ignore the fake-Asian Mickey Rooney parts) “Chocolat (zero calories),” “Dirty Dancing,” “Hannah and Her Sisters,” “Moonstruck,” “The Way We Were” (because of Robert Redford, but Barbra was pretty terrific in that movie), and “Field of Dreams.” And not a car chase in any of them!

 10) MEDITATE. You have stayed focused and you are transitioning to your new life. Now is the perfect time to focus on your breath. How about adding meditation to your daily routine? Here are just a few of the benefits that come from a few minutes of meditation a day: Clarity in problem solving; reduction of stress and anxiety; a renewed sense of well being; more restful sleep; slowing down of aging(YES!) and can even help with the resolution of mental and emotional blocks in our lives. Not too bad, eh? I travel to http://www.learningmeditation.com/room.htm when I need some breathing space to collect my thoughts and slow myself and my pace down. You can take a guided meditation with soothing music in the background or you can print the words out and meditate on them at your leisure. This is one of the best gifts you can give yourself and you just start by taking a deep breath.

 So, I see you have read them all. Good for you. Now get out there and put your midlife passions to the test. No more dress rehearsals. You have earned the right to take center stage!

 
Elizabeth Cassidy,CTACC started Branching Out Life Coaching with the belief that midlife is just the beginning of some of the best years in our lives. She offers complimentary coaching consultations for motivated women who are on the verge of discovering their own greatness. Shift your perspective and change your life. Call 516.629.6838 or email her at BranchOutLife@optonline.net. Embracing your new life just got a little easier. Please visit: www.BranchingOutLifeCoaching.com


 


April 28, 2008

Launching With A Conscience

From Elaine Gordon Evans, founder of Elaine's American Maid.

My life began, at a very early age, in the low-income housing projects of New York City where I lived with my single mother and brother.  I lived on Welfare my entire young life yet somehow never felt poor.  One of the reasons I never thought of myself as impoverished is because I knew there was a bigger world out there, much beyond a Park Avenue-bound bus ride into the city.  I also had a mother who loved me greatly and always emphasized that I could do anything I put my mind to.  With her belief in me, I felt like I could accomplish anything. All it takes is one person to believe in you to gain the courage and inspiration needed to become a success.  Sometimes that one person is only you, and it is usually accompanied with some Divine Help that truly makes your pursuit victorious.

Accomplishing the Great American Dream took a lot of hard work, determination, and passion. With the vision of being an entrepreneur, I started ironing shirts for a nickel a piece at age nine.  I never stopped pursuing my dream and eventually opened up my first housecleaning service at the tender age of 19 in South Florida.  My housecleaning service was cleaning 150 homes per week and I was launching about 90 cleaners in their own housecleaning businesses.  I was able to successfully get off Welfare, and not only take care of myself, but also my baby daughter, Shavawn.

Twelve years later in Redmond, Washington, I found myself in circumstances that left me homeless, with 4 children, and a fifth on the way.  I was able to houseclean my way to financial success a second time by opening my current housecleaning service called, Elaine's American Maid.

Since launching Elaine's American Maid 23 years ago over 4,000 housecleaners have launched themselves as entrepreneurs. My company cleans for about 120 clients per week with roughly 80 individuals working through the housecleaning referral service. I have also been responsible, not personally thank goodness, for cleaning over 1 million toilets in the Seattle area.

My passion and life s work is mentoring and empowering low-income women so they can become entrepreneurs. I help them work their way out of government assistance by guiding them in owning their own housecleaning businesses. As new, sole proprietors, they are encouraged to get out there and acquire as many clients as they can. While they are building their clientele, I fill up their open days with jobs from existing clients. The reason I don t hire employees is because I want to help and inspire as many people as possible to ultimately be entrepreneurs. The housecleaning business is a stepping-stone for many of these people to get back on their feet and eventually start a business pursuing their true passion.  For example, some of our housecleaners have opened their own business, gone back to school, become real estate agents, caterers and even lawyers. (Read more inspiring stories and articles at Elaine Gordon Evans and Elaine's American Maid.)

Not only does the entrepreneur housecleaning model help women work their way out of government assistance, but also through the many stressors related to the transition out of an abusive domestic relationship. Believe it or not, the nature of the housecleaning service affords women the time to reflect and visualize where their lives are headed. Another perk of business ownership is the ability to regulate your work schedule to be home for your children when they are out of school.  In addition, the daily cash flow enables women the ability to feed their families and pay bills, while putting them in the position of being in control. 

Elaine's American Maid cares not only for the needy but also for the sick.  I started giving away free housecleaning service to women who have cancer about four years ago when my mother-in-law, Bernice McCulley, developed breast cancer and was too sick to clean her house. I have been giving free housecleaning away to women with breast cancer ever since.  I ve established two foundations to help women: Maid for Work, which is for the less fortunate, and Maid for Life, which is for the sick and dying.

Everyone s life can be used to serve an amazing purpose.  Typically we can identify an unmet need just by looking around ourselves and deciding if and how we will help to fill that void.

My hope and prayer is that this story will be an inspiration for many to help a fellow neighbor in need. Maybe you too will incorporate your business with a humanitarian contribution to help others without hope that are seeking some guidance.

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April 21, 2008

Balanced Biz - How to Keep Your Sanity as a Busy Entrepreneur

When I left the “9 to 5”, I was thrilled to be starting my own venture. While I was dedicated to giving it my all, what I didn’t realize was that my life was about to drastically change.  I soon found out that if I didn’t plan my own weekends and days off, there wouldn’t be any. Gone were the lazy weekends and evenings on the couch.  A busy business owner could work everyday of the week, month, and year…and many do.  When you love what you’re doing, you don’t really mind. In fact, you might not even notice you haven’t showered and it’s 5pm already or that lunchtime came and went while you were busy sending emails.  While you’ve given up some bad habits like mindlessly surfing the internet or gossiping at your co-workers desk, you may have developed some new routines that are causing you to be a bit frazzled.  The key to remaining unfrazzled and keeping your sanity is a Balanced Biz.  Whether you’re just starting out on the road of entrepreneurism or if you’ve been on the journey a few years, keep in mind the following tips for a Balanced Biz. 

  1. Fuel Your Biz – As a Food Coach, I help busy women figure out how to maintain balance in their lives and eat food that will fuel them with energy.  The irony of my work as a food coach is that as a budding entrepreneur with many goals, I have to keep steady tabs on myself so that I don’t slip out of balance.  And of course, when I overwork, my body always reminds me.  Just last month I caught the flu and not because it was going around or because I was eating junk.  It was simply because I went overboard with work.  I was spending late hours on the computer, forgetting to take breaks, and not taking care of me. Remember to fuel yourself first, so that you can fuel your business.  The more energy you allow yourself, through proper food, exercise and relaxation, the more energy you’ll have for thinking creatively and tackling new challenges.
  2. Positive Pals – Early on in my business, I found out that surrounding myself with positive people     was essential.  As soon as you announce your plans for starting your own business, the look you may get from some of your closest friends and family members can be downright astounding.  Not everyone has it in them to be as creative and daring as you, and your ability to take action on      your dreams may be foreign to them.  Don’t spend too much time in the early stages of formulating your idea with these nay-sayers.  Stay focused and committed.  Find new friends or networks that support your ideas and dreams.  There are many local small business networks or internet networking groups such as Meetup.com and LinkedIn. I found my support  network through Ladies Who Launch, an amazing network of entrepreneurial women who helped shape the course of my business.
  3. Super Skills - Many business owners start out by taking on every task in the beginning.  From      bookkeeping, to marketing, to sales, to web writing, and much more. Clearly, you don’t want to blow the bank, so you put on the “I’ll do it myself” hat.  This is one of the biggest mistakes an entrepreneur can make.  Yes, it’s important to make sound financial decisions for your business, but focusing on the things you do best is what will make your business grow the fastest.  It is      essential to consider team members that will support you.  My first team member was a bookkeeper – what a relief!  I realized that the hours I spent trying to put everything into QuickBooks, making mistakes along the way, were hours I could be marketing my business and connecting with clients.  While you can’t hire team members for every task right away, start by choosing one team member.  As your business builds, have a plan for the next team members you will hire.  You may even find someone you can barter services with.  I offered free food coaching to a virtual  assistant who helped me input and track my database.  Go for it - it feels so good to have an assistant!  To get started, visit sites like elance.com, getcertainty.com, and getfriday.com.
  4. Fueling your business, surrounding yourself with positive people, and finding team members so you can focus on your talents are all keys to creating a business with a headache-free foundation.  Your  business will go to greater places, and won’t leave you behind with your head spinning. 

    Suzanne Monroe is a Food Coach and owner of Real Life Food.  Real Life Food coaches help busy women everywhere figure out what to eat and how to have more energy. For more information on Real Life Food programs, workshops, and recipes, or for a free food coaching session, visit www.reallifefood.com.  Suzanne also supports new business owners with effective marketing and business strategies.

Will The Real You Please Stand Up!

By Coach Joelle Prochera, professional life coach, fellow launcher and creator of the MAKE YOUR LIFE PROGRAM where you get to experience the magic of your life lived on purpose!  To hear more from Coach Joelle subscribe to the Livloud! Newsletter or read the coach joelle blog.   

Do you ever…
1. Spend hours strategizing and rehearsing before you talk to people about your business?
2. Have that feeling like you are a fake, afraid that everyone is going to find you out?
3. Try to be that person you “think” you should be to get respect, to be good enough, or to make the sale?

If any of this sounds familiar then I have good news for you.  With the new LWL profiles, we all have an opportunity to dig deep down inside and share who we really are.  For some this seems fun and easy, for others it may be an arduous quest for the perfect words, the right “spin” and putting out a professional image so people take you seriously.  If you are willing to take a look inside and find the “real you”, your version of authentic entrepreneurship, then writing that profile and living your life is about to get a heck of a lot easier and 10 times more fun.

What is Authentic Entrepreneurship?
Authentic entrepreneurship is running your business as a true expression of who you are, in total alignment with your beliefs, values and natural talents.  It means first identifying the real you and then living and acting from that you. 

When you are acting as an authentic entrepreneur, when you know who you are and own it, a whole new world becomes available:

• You are able to show up at any situation with confidence and ease.
• You become intimately acquainted with who you are and what you stand for and you boldly allow that real you to shine through in every action taken and word spoken.
• You become free from the fear of being “found out” and the burden of having to “look good” and “do it right”.
• It means no more fake, stuffy profiles. No more talking heads. No more “status quo” and a lot more joy and ease!

Sound good?  Well then let’s get down to it! Let’s find the authentic entrepreneur inside of you.

To create your profile, start by asking these authentic entrepreneur questions:

A) What do you value and how are these values expressed in your business?
B) What are your favorite things about you? What makes you – you?
C) Why do you love your business/service?  What do you love about your business/service?
D) How does your business make a difference for people? What does it serve in the world?

Now sit down with your answers in front of you and clear your mind.  Forget everything that you think you “should be”, throw out your concern of looking silly or being “too much” and write your profile allowing these truths to shine through.  Dare to say what you really feel.  Push the limits of “normal” and “appropriate” and let the world of Ladies Who Launch know who you are, who needs to know you and why.

Why be normal when you can be extraordinary? Why be like everyone else when you can be YOU.  To dare to be your very own authentic entrepreneur is a step down the path to greatness. Have fun – I’ll see you at the top!

With love, joy and authenticity,

Coach Joelle

DO YOU HAVE A QUESTION FOR COACH JOELLE?:  I am looking for the opportunity to fully serve each of you on your personal adventure.  If you have a life or business challenge that you would like a coaching perspective on, please share your comments below or email me at Joelle@coachjoelle.com.

Make your life a work of art a joyful dance a grand adventure!

April 18, 2008

Creating a Page on Facebook

by Fashionmista aka That IT Girl, Spammy Scammers, and Katie James Pixelated

If you use Facebook for personal reasons, you can certainly use it to help your business, whether you have a service or product based business. Facebook developed a way for your business to have a presence in its social network: the Page. A Page is an interactive, well, page, that showcases whatever you can think of regarding your business. A Page can't have friends, but people can "fan" it, or become a fan (ps: a Page cannot become a fan of another Page). And fans are good. Here's what happens when your Facebook page has fans:

  • Updates: you can send updates about your products or services to your fans
  • Logo: your logo shows up on their profile page in a little square shape
  • Pictures: you can post pictures of your products, or of any other type of graphic
  • Applications: Pages are able to work with Applications. Applications are the tools that make your page interactive with people viewing your Page. Here are some examples of applications being used on the Ladies Who Launch page (ahem...have you fanned it yet??)

How to Create a Facebook Page

When you are logged into your account in Facebook, look to the left of your screen, and under Applications, there should be "Ads and Pages". Click it. If it's not there, do a search for it, and you may get it that way.

Look around for a button that says "+ Create Page". Click it.

Fill in the questions they ask you. If your business does not depend on Local results, then you probably want the second option, which is "Brand or Product", and then you'll get another pulldown.

Naming your page: I'm pretty sure that once you insert the name of your page, you can't change it. So no typos! But you could always create another one.

Examples of Applications for the Page
The nice thing about Pages, vs Groups, is that you can add more things to them, like an RSS feed box, or a "Big Photo" or other applications. Here is what they look like on the Ladies Who Launch Facebook Page:

"Big Photo"

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The RSS Feed
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Good luck and have fun!!

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